Gonder and Lalibela – The problem with expectations

Gonder, Ethiopia

Lalibela

“If you go to Ethiopia, you’ve got to see the rock churches in Lalibela! It should be one of the new 7 Wonders of the World!” claimed a fellow traveler enthusiastically. He’s not the only one spewing superlatives about these churches in the Northern Circuit of Ethiopia.

I came to Lalibela prepared to be wowed.

Instead, after 2 days, I left feeling underwhelmed. And terribly guilty.

Guilty because I felt like I should be wowed. Yet, I didn’t. But I should.

There are about 11 churches in the Lalibela complex, all of them are carved from the underlying bedrock of the town. Some are completely detached from the surrounding rocks, while others are only half-way there.

A rock church in Lalibela

The size and the attention of the details hint at the massive effort undertaken to build these churches. Think of the room you’re in reading this post and imagine that at one time, it was filled with rock. Someone then diligently carved away the space that becomes the room, carved the doorway through which you entered, and even the room it’s connected with.

Working with negative space, they carved these buildings out of rock following whatever divine instruction they got.

They should’ve taken my breath away. But instead my first reaction when I saw them was, ‘This is it?’

Lalibela rock hewn churches

Each church is probably the size of a chapel. Compared to European churches, the churches of Lalibela are plainly decorated. No gilds, minimum paints, minimum carvings, mostly just rock all the way through and through. The church’s interior is dimly lit making it even harder to make out the painting and the carvings on the ceilings and walls.

The priests guarding the church looked grumpy and tired, I’m guessing for being repeatedly asked for photographs.

My guide* couldn’t explain why they decided to carve the churches out of rock as opposed to building them out of wood or whatever material is around. He couldn’t explain why these churches are located so close to each other. As a matter of fact, he couldn’t explain much at all other than repeatedly extending an invitation for ‘a traditional tea ceremony’ with his friends that he hoped I could join after the tour is over.

Lalibela Church - Saint George

Saint George Church, Lalibela

The only redeeming thing about these Lalibela churches was Saint George, which was the most impressive one of them all and definitely the most photogenic. Unfortunately, my guide even managed to ruin the experience by refusing to shut up – chattering in unintelligible English about the features of the church, and of course about the tea party.

“This is the last church we’re visiting. After this, we can take a break and have tea with my friends. Yes?”

I smiled sweetly, “You know what? I’m going to pay you now. I want to stay and take pictures.”

He tried again, “There’ll be a dance performance** too!”

“Aw, how cute. Still, the answer is ‘no'” – I gave him a little wave. Finally, sweet relief!


Lalibela itself is a little bit of a dump. Its streets are littered with scraggly kids and too many people hanging around on the street not doing much at all other than trying to strike up conversations with tourists. It seems that the 350 Birr ($20) entrance fee to the churches doesn’t really trickle down to the villagers themselves.

“Hello, money” – kids would approach with their palms up while flashing white, toothy grins. Some would make writing motions to indicate that they’d like you to give them a pen, or a notebook, or something, anything.

Center of Lalibela
One of the main streets of Lalibela

I never felt threatened by these uncalled for attention. Just annoyed for not being able to walk alone in peace. Some days I could take it in strides, some days this constant noise gets me down. That day in Lalibela was one of the latters.

I’m pretty sure I heaved an audible sigh of relief when I finally boarded the plane to Gonder.

Gonder

I was warned about Gonder. The castle was just ‘eh’ and the hassle one gets is one of the worst in Ethiopia’s Northern Circuit. ‘Skippable’ – a fellow traveler told me. Of course I heard all of these after I booked my flight, so I had little choice but to go.

I met a nice Aussie couple who offered me a ride from the airport in their hotel van saving me 70 ETB. I got dropped off at the piazza where I knew a bunch of budget hotels were located. As soon as I stepped off the minivan, one of the touts (they wear green sweater with yellow stripe) honed in on me.

‘Hotel, mam? Where you go?’ I hate these guys. They’re harder to get rid of than the stink of that dog poo you just step on. They run into the hotels you approach to tell the owners that they ‘bring’ you there to get a commission. And they just won’t shut up and it makes it hard to think.

I had a hotel in mind and on the way there two of them were following me. I saw a nice hotel with a security guy in front of the gate I quickly turned into and walked inside. As I had hoped, the guys didn’t follow me in there.

To the front counter people, ‘I just want to hide. Is that ok?’ They were being very friendly about it. I wanted to stay there but it was outside my budget.

But other than that, Gonder turned out to be a pleasant surprise. I’ve seen better castles elsewhere, but the ground has a peaceful atmosphere: the sky was blue, there was a cool breeze and the ground was covered in lush green. The best thing of all? Nobody bothered me there. I walked in complete freedom, exploring the ruins using only my guidebook for explanations. It was lovely!

Gonder Castle, Ethiopia

Gonder castle, Ethiopia

The 100 Birr entrance fee to Gonder Castle also included the entrance to Fasilada bath – a 10 min ride away in a tuk-tuk.

There isn’t much to the bath itself, especially since there’s no water in the so-called bath (it’s only filled once a year and dry most of the time).

Fasilada Bath, Gonder

The structure is in the middle of a large lawn with trees that hide hundreds of noisy, chattering birds. I could barely see them but I could very well hear them. There was nobody else there and I had the place for myself.

I laid my cheek on the warm stone enclosure, closed my eyes and for the first time after I arrived in Ethiopia I felt peaceful. Just me, and this empty pool, and the trees, and the birds. I felt that I had been holding my breath all this time and I could finally release it. It was a great relief. It was so peaceful I could’ve stayed for hours. I wish I had brought a book with me.

Fasilada Bath, Gonder

Another tourist entered. He took about half a dozen pictures and left. His whole visit took less than 5 minutes.

As I left, I wondered if that person was sitting in a cafe somewhere telling others that there’s nothing to see in Gonder.

In the end..

Of course your own experience might be different. You might absolutely love Lalibela and find Gonder ‘skippable’. That’s the beauty of travel. There’s nothing cookie cutter about the experience.


*Should you hire a guide in Lalibela or not?
If you get yourself a good guide, I’ve heard it’s worth it. But since these guides work on rotational basis, it’s a crap shoot. You might end up with mine if you’re unlucky. On the other hand, having a guide is useful for showing where these churches are. Since they’re underground, they’re not easy to spot and some churches are connected through tunnels.

**The Ethiopian Siren Scam
In Lalibela, every local you meet will eventually ask you to go for a ‘party’ or ‘traditional dance performance’. If you go, make sure you ask how much everything is before consuming any tea, or ‘tej’ or anything – it might turn out to be one of those ‘siren scams’ where they hand you an exorbitant bill at the very end.

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19 Replies to “Gonder and Lalibela – The problem with expectations”

  1. I finally found an article that matched my thoughts! My husband and I are currently living here and have 1 more year to go and we feel exactly the same way you experienced. Although we’ve found silver linings to our stay, we too have found it difficult to see the “hype” that everyone talks about. It’s great to see a blog that doesn’t rave about a place just for being there. Can’t wait to read more of your pages!

  2. I appreciate your honest assessment. I am Ethiopian, but I was also left with the same impression of Lalibela. It was very difficult to enjoy my visit without the pestering of “tour guides” and other hawkers. If you attempt a self-guided tour, many things become inaccessible as there are a coterie trying to profit from whatever little access they control. I suppose it’s understandable considering few opportunities that exist in the town.

    Overall, with all the new accommodations and improved facilities, travelling in Ethiopia is an experience of a lifetime…and the natural wonders are unmatched.

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  4. I wonder how i ended up here and it was very interesting to read your blog about Ethiopia. I appreciate what you have commented about and your overwhelming expectation and what you have seen on the ground. Sometimes it may disappoint you when you find things different but I believe, you have come to see a culture and a community that is completely different from your life style. And based on my reading, it seemed like your journey was focused to discover more of the half empty glass rather than the half full. I am an Ethiopian and I have traveled more than 14 countries in Northern America, Europe, Asia and Africa. When I travel, I always consider my self that I am an outsider and I always try to adjust my self with the culture and norms of the community. I truly understand what you have felt, as I feel it as well. But please, this is my perspective, try to understand the community before you say negative things about them. By the way, Ethiopians are very courageous people. Your trip might have been much worse if any one hears you saying something negative about their church or their belief.

  5. I was surprised to discover that the Lalibela churches can be fully seen in less than half a day. My guide tried to hold me up for an additional fee after we did the first two groups of churches. He then became very threatening. I would advise not touring the churches alone with a guide but sharing a guide with another tourist for safety.

  6. I know so little of Ethiopia beyond a restaurant down the street from my apartment and what I see on CNN so I'm thrilled to see the architecture. Independent business people in SE Asia can be pushy like what you describe but I try to take it in stride as compared to them I am rich and they are poor, just trying to make a dollar to get through to the following day. Remember to breathe and that you're not living there, you're just in transit and you'll be on to somewhere else soon enough.

  7. well,as an ethiopian i do feel soory to hear such merciless comments about the top historical sites of the country .as i can understand you haven't chose a right destination ,howeever this does not impliey that gondar and lalibela are not magnificent rather could have been better for you to visit dubaia where yOu can see high building ,well dressed ….but you can see those things in your own country so no need to travel.othere thing i want to suggest is do not visit ethiopia when you are in a bad mood or share the visit with a friend and do not be that much compliant about the price ,ethiopia is the cheapest destination where you can get more by paying less .

  8. ‘Hotel, mam? Where you go?’ I hate these guys. They’re harder to get rid of than the stink of that dog poo you just step on.
    I agree it is VERY annoying when people chase you to get a dime… Africa is pretty well known for that. They are poor and they think you are rich. You certainly have more money than they do.
    Still, you're talking about human beings who are trying to survive the only way they know how.
    Jeanne

  9. ‘Hotel, mam? Where you go?’ I hate these guys. They’re harder to get rid of than the stink of that dog poo you just step on.
    I agree it is annoying when people chase you to get a dime… Africa is pretty well known for that. They are poor and they think you are rich. You certainly have more money than they do.
    Still, you're talking about human beings and even if I understand your feelings (I know how it feels), this is not a great comment. But well, it is just my opinion.
    Jeanne

  10. this post rubbed me the wrong way. i have spent a lot of time in ethiopia and even though i contracted an ameoba and was extremely sick, i count it as one of the most wonderful places to visit for so many other reasons: the people are some of the warmest you will ever meet in the world; the food is inexpensive, tasty and incredibly healthy; the history is awe inspiring; the people some of the most beautiful in the world.

    i haven't read all your posts on ethiopia and i understand this is your blog and you can review things as you see fit but this came across as though you were judging the people and the country and not just that you found the churches plain and underwhelming.

    i know what you mean as i sort of felt the same way when i went to visit a rock hewn church outside of addis, and i might share that with people. but all the commentary on the grumpy guides, street children, preists, etc angered me. put yourself in abject poverty in a country with 80% unemployment and then judge. sure, beggars and guides desperate to make a living can be annoying but a little sensitivity to their situation might have gone a long way to make your stay in ethiopia more enjoyable.

  11. The castle looks beautiful! I've often wondered if I'd be under/overwhelmed by Lalibela. I think I've built it up in my head after seeing it featured in so many shows and documentaries. But the fact that it was carved by hand is a marvel nonetheless. 🙂

  12. When my boyfriend suggested we visit Ethiopia last year my immediate response was, "We are NOT going to Ethiopia." It never occurred to me that it would be a tourist destination. Obviously, I was wrong. Your pictures are pretty fascinating but I know what you mean about not being impressed by some sites while traveling. I think there are so many factors… what you've seen before, how you're feeling that day, the weather, your guide, etc. Looking forward to digging deeper into your blog.

  13. Thanks for your light hearted evaluation of Lalibela and Gonder, both of which I shall be visiting in March. I must admit that, though you don't over enthuse about Lalibela, your photos are among the nicest I've seen of the churches…
    I am hoping to go there not expecting toooo much and to be pleasantly surprised:)

  14. To be honest, from your photos, I think Lalibela looks really cool. Just because it doesn't have fancy design doesn't mean its not beautiful.

  15. Honestly, after looking at photos, I feel I'd be underwhelmed by Lalibela, too. When it comes to churches, I like mine with lots of ornate decoration and fine detail. The real reason I want to go to Ethiopia is for the Simian Mountains – they look amazing (and I don't even like mountains that much!)
    Your post highlights that there's no clear-cut "like/dislike" when it comes to travellers and their tastes. What some travellers might find abhorrent I may absolutely love – and vice versa.

  16. This is a good case story for making your own assessment about what places are worth visiting and not relying entirely on the opinions of others. I'm glad you found a peaceful place – sometimes that can be hard during a hectic period of traveling.

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